Romance is part of family life. It is an effective catalyst to nurture husband & wife relationship.  However, when romance is over activated and enhanced, it would turn into seductive sexual activation; ultimately bring harm and destruction to the husband & wife relationship. As, normally, it comes together with third party intervention into the couple’s life.

No one expects an extra marital status happens to a happy family. Nevertheless, it is a factual situation in modern life whether in the Eastern or Western world. As a practitioner of feng shui who has seen many cases, I would say it is one of the common social problems nowadays.

One of the romance possibilities is having exposure of headboard to window. It means the head is pointing to a window; or the headboard leans against a window directly. This kind of bed orientation is a basic parameter to justify possibility of having “exposure “ of private life; yet, it does tell anything more than this.

In order to analysis in deeper diagnosis, you need guidance from yijing wisdom. Yijing analysis would tell you more than “exposure”. It is able to tell to what degree the exposure is. Does the adultery happen? If yes, Is it happen to the female or male counterpart? If yes, does the love affair commit pure love or lustful feeling? If no, what is the implication of having headboard “exposure”? Is it just as defined by ordinary feng shui book that headboard “exposure” causes head ache, illness and weak health? As a practitioner, I think headboard “exposure” carries the implicit meanings more than orthodox’s definition & interpretation.

Off course, seal up the window is ONLY the basic solution. The total cut off of the romance should be done based on holistic Yijing methodology.

浪漫爱情是家庭生活的一部分。这是一个有效的催化剂培养夫妻的关系。然而，太过的催化增强风水上的爱情方位，它就会变成诱人的性激活，最终夫妻关系会带来伤害和破坏。这是由于通常这会引起第三者的介入与干预。

没有人会希望婚外情发生在自己的幸福家庭里。然而，这状况它一直是发生在我们现代生活的实际情况，无论是在东方还是西方世界。作为风水地理师我也处理了许多这类的婚外情风水个案，我会说这是当今最常见的社会问题之一。

其中浪漫的婚外情会发生的可能性之一是床头背着窗口。这种床的取向是一个基本的参数来证明在风水上是会“暴露”了自己的私生活。

我们可以利用易经的智慧来引导更深的诊断和分析。通过易经它分析及“暴露”的告诉你跟多一点的消息。它能够告诉在何种程度上暴露。通奸是否发生？如果是，是否发生在女方或男方？如果有的话，请问犯下的婚外情的恋情是淫荡的或纯洁的爱情呢？如果没有婚外情，那么床头的“暴露”还有什么的含义呢？这或只是普通的风水书界定的：床头板“暴露”造成头疼，疾病和稀弱的身体吗？作为一个风水地理师，我觉得床头“暴露”含带了正统的定义和解释及隐含的意义。

当然遮盖窗口只是基本的化解的方案。如要破斧沉舟的斩断婚外情，只有用易经的方法在基础上全面的操盘才能见效！