Two World Systems in Malaysian Chinese Family ! Interesting…..

1. My job includes giving opinions on family values as well.
2. Because Malaysian Chinese from the professional background has no problem with MONEY.
3. They come to me for a second opinion on their
   1. investments,
   2. global trends,
   3. future planning,
   4. migration,
   5. the balance of power, the shaping of new world order,
   6. surviving the pandemic aftermath,
   7. the outlook & perspective in the aftermath of the pandemics,
   8. etc…. anything those professionals could imagine
   9. anyway, I am an encyclopedia to them as long as consultation is a concern  
4. Yet, this is a piece of proof that 2 world systems operate in a Malaysian Chinese (MC) family:
   1. Old Style – Asian family system
   2. Modern Style – Western family systems
   3. 
5. Let me cut it short as below:
   1. Up to 2019, Malaysian Chinese (MC) families tend to adopt the Western way that only focuses on nuclear families.
   2. A nuclear family, elementary family, or conjugal family is a family group consisting of parents and their children (one or more)
   3. The extended family member is considered a private life/space intruder.
   4. However, when Covid 19 strikes, the rise of China Vs the United States’ weaknesses,
   5. makes many MCs rethink the rebalancing of the global power. 
   6. MCO imposed, making MCs cook at home and re-evaluate Westernized family values.
   7. Covid 19 makes many MCs understand that MONEY cannot buy everything.
   8. You have no one to rely on except your extended family members that you always keep a distance from due to so-called privacy, confidentiality, and ego.
6. Apart from the effect of the rise of China & Covid 19, the other factor causing MC to rethink family value is maturity after 40 years old. 
7. MCs spend their golden age from 24- 40 years old to earn a lot of money and enjoy their life in a western way for maximum personal & individual pleasure. 
8. However, when they have kids and almost settled down around 40 or 40+, then they started to rethink about what is the correct way to go for their future and family.  
9. The couple above is in their early 40s. 
10. Sometimes the husband is more westernized, but this time was the wife.
11. There is a very confusing mixture of value systems in the MC family but it does not cut along
    1. husband Vs wife
    2. English speaking Vs speaking
    3. professional Vs non-professional 
    4. wealthy Vs non-wealthy 
12. The confusion is intensifying from 2020-2021 because
    1. The rise of China 
    2. Exposure of Weaknesses among Western Countries
    3. Covid 19
    4. MCO 
13. However, no matter how confusing is, but one thing is never confused.
14. That is MCs never accept Islamic values as the way of life.
15. Does this set the possible racial disharmony in the future?
16. Why?

不管是西化 还是 中化， 大马华裔就是不要 伊斯兰化！ 

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