Malaysia Chinese is Much More Conservative Than You Think Of

1. I am busy with online consultation as clients are preparing for new year planning.
2. I learn a lot from my clients thru their questions. This allows me to see what is going during MCO in terms of their career and family.
3. Today I would like to zoom down on 1 single topic & share my thoughts.
4. Undoubtedly, females in Malaysian Chinese(MC) society are treated equally & fairly by their men or husbands; as MC practices monogamy.
5. However, this is not the case for Muslims, where males could marry more than 1 wife.
6. Relatively speaking, Malaysian Chinese women enjoy gender equality in the true sense practically; and Malaysian Chinese men acknowledge this.
7. However, strangely but truly, be Chinese speaking or English speaking, be highly educated or medium educated, be urban or rural; there is an unspoken traditional value in Malaysian Chinese mindset as below:
8. Comparatively speaking, Malaysian Chinese is NOT open and liberal like Muslims; in marrying a divorcee.
9. Muslims are more liberal and open-minded in marrying a divorcee.
10. A divorcee is not the 1^st, 2^nd or 3^rd priority for a Malaysian Chinese be male or female to be considered as a legal life partner.
11. At least, this is a mutual consensus among Malaysian Chinese from highly educated to medium educated; from upper class to medium class.
12. Malaysian Chinese(MC) society looks open-minded and westernized apparently or externally ONLY.
13. However, MC is much more conservative than Chinese in China, Hong Kong, Taiwan & even Singapore.
14. Men in China taking divorcee as a wife are very common due to China’s destructive gender ratio imbalance. Yet,
15. 2nd marriage by abandoning children is NOT blessed in Malaysian Chinese(MC) society.
16. MC is very traditional when they come to family matters; regardless of Mandarin-speaking or English speaking.
17. No MC man is proud of marrying somebody’s ex-wife.
18. This explains why a lot of Malaysian Chinese women find it much harder to get married again after divorcing ex-husbands; compared to Malay female counterparts.
19. In this matter, the rights of Muslim women are truly honored because they have ALL the rights to get married again and be encouraged by their society.
20. While for Malaysian Chinese female divorcees, they have to face certain unseen social punishment(including rumors) if they wanted to get married.
21. Malaysian Chinese divorcees are possibly preyed/victimized by boyfriends or married men for intimate relationships.
22. Fortunately, most MC female divorcees pay full attention to their children from the 1^st marriage and remain single mothers.
23. Therefore, my advice to Malaysian Chinese wives, think twice before divorcing.
24. However, you can go ahead with the 2nd marriage if you have 2 superpowers as below:
    1. Personal Financial Superpower
    2. Sexual Superpower
25. Perhaps you can find an MC man who is willing to trade his marriage/ social respect with your 2 superpowers.
26. Nevertheless, make sure the 2 superpowers must be sustained for the next 30 years to come.

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